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Wednesday ··· 5·14·08 ··· 04:19 am
my tribe: you.
Ever since I made the post on my tribe, I've wanted to add more, explain more. I listed my 'tentmates' but the truth is, nearly everyone on my friends list is part of my tribe. I only have two kinds of people on my flist; those whom I have a connection with, and those whom I might have a connection with. And I think the ratio is about 80 to 8; nearly all of you are SO IMPORTANT to me.

I like to know where I stand with people and I like people to know where they stand with me. So, if you comment, I will tell you why you are an important part of my life, and whether I feel a connection or am still unsure.

I am truly so very very lucky to have this amazing tribe of incredible people! Thank you ♥ I love you!

ETA: I'm going to be doing these slowly, so please don't think I'm ignoring you. ;-)
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[identity profile] armandii.livejournal.com
Date: 2008-05-16 10:39 am (UTC)
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I am glad to share a fire with you. You make me look afresh at my conditioning and question who I 'think' I am. Most (but not all) of the LJ friends I feel a close connection with are my son's age and yet I do not feel 'motherly' towards them. It is as if I relate with the part of myself that is still in her early 20s, the me who became lost for many years in marriage and controlling relationships. Now I have walked away from the 'controllers' it is as if the me that is still 20 or so can breathe again and is reliving that part of the journey while simultaneously I am a mother and partner in real life, this time doing it the way that feels right. Also I really do feel physical age does not define us. I have friends 20 and 25 years younger than myself and a partner nearly 30 years older than me.
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[identity profile] belenen.livejournal.com
Date: 2008-05-16 10:52 am (UTC)
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I really do feel physical age does not define us

Yes, I quite agree! Time is unimportant, as is age -- only what has been learned matters.

also I really love your new icon and wish I had a spare 2grand to get that for you 'cause I SO would!
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