random -- ljing
I did something that I've been too wimpy to do for a long time -- I removed from my friends list some journals of people I know in real life. I was too afraid of hurting feelings for a long time, but you know what? Just because I don't click with them journalistically doesn't mean that we can't stay at the same level real-life-ly. And treating journals differently based on whether I have 'real-life' connections with them or not is just dumb.
I also removed some journals of people who haven't posted in months. I felt guilty about that too, but who's to say they're coming back? I left notes in their journals and hopefully if they do come back they'll look me up.
The past two days I have been busy and feeling yucky. Aunt Flo showed up in the middle of work yesterday, and then I spent my whole first day at work. (Usually Ben pampers me, massaging my belly until the cramps disappear (yes he has magic fingers) and bringing me water and coffee and food and all that wonderful stuff) I've been completely uninspired to do more than read LJ, but no worries, I shall go on a 'commenting spree' soon. I promise I'm not ignoring anyone. And I have loved all of your wonderful comments lately.
I have some in-ter-e-sting posts percolating in my head, but they will have to wait until I actually have time and rest.
Oh, and I got
valynn's postcard, yay! Pretty and purple-y, it will look wonderful in my collage! And thank you so much for the sweet things you wrote, I am so happy to have you as a friend too. When I got the card it totally blissed me out -- yay mail! Yay Valynn! Yay delightful words! ;-)
I also removed some journals of people who haven't posted in months. I felt guilty about that too, but who's to say they're coming back? I left notes in their journals and hopefully if they do come back they'll look me up.
The past two days I have been busy and feeling yucky. Aunt Flo showed up in the middle of work yesterday, and then I spent my whole first day at work. (Usually Ben pampers me, massaging my belly until the cramps disappear (yes he has magic fingers) and bringing me water and coffee and food and all that wonderful stuff) I've been completely uninspired to do more than read LJ, but no worries, I shall go on a 'commenting spree' soon. I promise I'm not ignoring anyone. And I have loved all of your wonderful comments lately.
I have some in-ter-e-sting posts percolating in my head, but they will have to wait until I actually have time and rest.
Oh, and I got

I still need to send you a postcard. I'm sending out christmas cards this year and will probably just be sending you two then ;)
I feel bad, but you can understand.
have a nice day :)
As for deleting people, I think it's cool that you have the guts to do that. For me, it causes so much drama unfortunately that I just keep them. I do filters if there's something that I need to say that needs to stay away from them. Which at the time was all my journal. :/
I got your postcard. Made my week ♥
Aaaaaannnnnd, I made a voice post. Didja see?
I hope you're feeling better soon. And I should be posting more, as I'm getting out an introvert phase.
Love you :)
AND I got your voicemails and I WILL call you back! You have such an adorable voice.
Love you too!
although with as close as
i've been a bad lj friend to everyone.
life has just gotten in the way.
thanks for the card!!! i very much appreciated it. and i am going to search out the café when i'm next in toronto.
and i promise a postcard soon.
honest.
xo,
d.
I so can't wait for the postcard. ;-)
I'm glad you got blissed out by the postcard. :)
*hugs*