I didn't mean it to be hurtful at all, and I am sorry if it appeared that. I was hoping it would maybe be something of encouragement, like a light at the end of a really dark tunnel. I know many people who have had a really bad time, who spent years trying to work through everything, and one who even committed suicide because she felt so helpless and unable regardless of all the love and support her friends and therapists gave her. Some people don't understand how it's possible to work through something in a few days, but others see it as a glimpse of hope for themselves, that they too will find peace from the pain.

That's what I was going for, I probably should have just said the long version from the get-go.