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Expect to find curse words, nudity, (occasionally explicit) talk of sex, and angry ranting, but NEVER slurs or sexually violent language. I use TW when I am aware of the need and on request.

Date: 2005-02-06 07:36 am (UTC)
If you aren't ready to work through it, that's certainly okay. But I'd like to say that your comment was a little hurtful, because you implied that it's possible to work through it in just a few days, and that made me feel (at first reading) like my pain was invalid, like I should just 'get over it' -- and that's abuser talk.

I'm not telling you out of anger or anything like that, I'm telling you because I don't think you realized your comment could make me feel that way, and I want to help you keep from possibly (unintentionally) hurting people like me.
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